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ummmm hi....... i wanted to confess this but i like this girl in my school she is cute and i, always happy when around her and we have a BUNTCH of classes together and im to nerves to ask her out cause i LIKE LIKE her and im soooo nervous WAY more nervous then ever :blush: :blush: im nervous what should i say (yes im experienced but she's "DIFFERENT")
Prepare a speech,buckle up, and tell her.
her cuteness makes mel ike not tell her :lol:
im scared of her saying no to me
We already went over hiding stuff from me.Quote:
Originally Posted by XxDarknessAngelxX
And whats the worst thats gonna happen?
You just get a no.
Thats it.
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I know the feeling, man. Become better friends with her, this should bring your confidence up to speed. One step at a time - a very good friendship and then there can be more. Let her understand you and the same for her to you.
After all of this getting to the stage where you jump off the clif and hope you have a parachute, if she says no then simple take it and still be friends - do not get all upset about it. Friendship is not the worst thing ever.
Oh god I just love giving tips on this.
Listen,if you do exactly as I say you will get her. I've helped a lot of people around here.
So let's start:
1. You cannot ask her out. Why? Because you're not close friends yet.
I don't know your relationship,but a good relationship works out only if you know her really well and of course,she to know you.
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Get as closer as you can,forget about dating and making out for now. She won't probably accept anyone that ask her out.
2. See what she likes. I met my current girlfriend on math class,she was a new comer. Well that one was a lucky one for me. :lol:
But in your case,you have to know what are her favorite flowers,puppies,shoes and jackets brands,music...believe it or not I keep a notepad text document with tons of stuff she likes,so when we go out I just search up some good stuff.
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Hang around her as much as you can. Don't be too aggressive,you have to give her space.
3. You probably searched up on google about this,I know you did because we've all did,nothing to be ashamed of.
The bad part of that is all you can see is what to do,and not what not to do.
So here,in a few words:
What NOT to do or say
Don't wave with your hands a lot. Or at least keep them in your pockets.
Don't talk about stupid immature stuff.
No one cares how old your granpa is,so avoid conversations with no way to go.
What TO do:
Here's the best thing I've said ever. The best way to get someone to like you.
GIVE COMPLIMENTS. A LOT. WHEN I SAY A LOT I MEAN I WHOLE GIANT BUNCH OF COMPLIMENTS. Don't get too much,though.
The way i started was facebook. I said "omg you look so amazing in that album with your friends...jeez they must miss your beauty out there!" And that's enough. More then that over computer will sound pervert which will most likely end up with a block.
Next day when you see her - just a little "Hey,looking really good,what's up?" See how I put that into a normal question. Instead of the regular "how are you" you always put something nice.
One thing finally because my hands are falling off :lol:
Don't do those secret paper "i like you" notes...just don't. They're immature and show how shy you are.
Well this should be pretty enough to get started. Let us know on updates here so I can help out later.
DAAAAAAAAMNNN martin that was uhm helpful but....... i did not google lol thanks for the info
p.s. we are like best/close friends so 'ill take your tips MASTER lol you should be the next hitch (movie will smith guy who gives dating advice)
Anytime man just don't get too excited about it :lol:
ok i will stay calm i will post what happens when i go back to school we have a 3 day weekend so three days will be till i see her