The Forums Are Pretty Deserted...

[Nivas]

no, we like you as a member, but I thought you were exaggerating by going on about this topic, I do think nobody wanted you to feel attacked. You are a great and valued member.

[awesomego]

I just said how that's not possible.



Yeah of course he's changed, calling me an idiot.

I have no idea why you're ganging up on me.

I said maybe not yes

[asd123]

I just said how that's not possible.



Yeah of course he's changed, calling me an idiot.

I have no idea why you're ganging up on me.

Don't act as if you are one for pity. As you previously said, there are no sides here. Nobody is ganging up on you. All i'm saying is that you were acting as a bit of an ass yourself. You are being hypocritical towards VCR. I don't like the guy either. But he shouldn't have started it and you shouldn't be continuing it.

[ZuckeR]

I'm not fighting, I was just trying to tell JustAnOldVCR what he was doing wrong.

Yeah and as you are a member for so long you should know the rules!

I have no idea why you're ganging up on me.

You went off topic by attacking VCR rather then joining the discussion. Next time PM him if you have to clear something up!

And to all the others go back on topic or i will lock this. Ridiculous how you fight about such silly things throwing around swears at each other. That seems to be the best way for a community to die by fighting over minor things. Discussing is fine but sometimes you should just know when to shut up.

I don't think fighting was the problem why the active community got smaller and smaller allthough we had quite a bit of that while more people were active. People just got new hobbies or simply spend their time with their family and probably at work. That happens in all communitys online or in the real world. Blaming anyone for that is plain wrong!

[JustAnOldVCR]

When I'm offline, everyone's still fighting. Fine, I'll clear this up I'm sorry SUM1 for being rude to your previous thread. Are you happy now? Calm your horses.
The thread was still alright, until SUM1 went completely off topic and started the fight again, thus messing the thread. SUM1, will you accept my apology?
Yes, I agree with ZuckeR members quit to enjoy their daily lives, forgotten usernames/passwords or too busy.

[SUM1]

Fine I accept the apology, I was just angry at what you did on my topic. But I don't necessarily appreciate the replies asd123 and ZuckeR made, asd123 accusing me of trying to make myself "the one for pity" and ZuckeR generally going over the top and using words like "attacked".

As much as you all may think I caused a whole mess and argument and blah blah and ruined the topic, you are all kind of going over the top too. I just had a fueled anger in my original post. I didn't mean to start another argument. You are as much to blame as I am, everyone who contributed to the argument.

And remember, none of this would've happened if it wasn't for JustAnOldVCR's rude posts in my perfectly reasonable topic in the first place.

And going back to the original topic, no the forums aren't that deserted since a month ago quite a few old members decided to return.

[JustAnOldVCR]

At last, it's all cleared up. We friends now SUM1?

Yes, I have seen that happening last month but this month I haven't really seen their contributions lately for example, SharpFire, Auburn, DarkAngels, Kody, NothingPersonal and the others. These are the few old members who actually came back and lifted our spirits to become one whole community again. (Yes I haven't written their full usernames, I'm lazy.)
But, now I haven't seem them as much which is a shame.

[Nivas]

But, isn't it nice that there are a few "new" members including myself who are quite active on the forums?

[ZuckeR]

"the one for pity" and ZuckeR generally going over the top and using words like "attacked".

Yes you verbally attacked him for no good reason! Calling someone a huge **** is pretty much a verbal assault for me.

I just had a fueled anger in my original post. I didn't mean to start another argument.

Then why did you write your reply. You know what, when posting something you have all the time in the world to think about what you are writing before clicking the submit button. So don't tell me you have done it in the heat of the moment.

And remember, none of this would've happened if it wasn't for JustAnOldVCR's rude posts in my perfectly reasonable topic in the first place.

Then talk to him via PM, openly fighting just gets you to stuff like what happened here in this thread.

And going back to the original topic, no the forums aren't that deserted since a month ago quite a few old members decided to return.

A month ago, you said it. Not saying it is your fault, but they came for one or two posts and gone back to being inactive afterwards. Most people went on with their lifes and rarely come here. That is fine, i don't mind if someone is a new or an old member. An active community has both which is good for discussions as new people bring new ideas.

[JustAnOldVCR]

It was pretty good with the old members reviving our spirits, SUM1 really encouraged them to came back and at least we had a little moment with them, a moment is better than none, you see? (ZuckeR, it's weird but you somehow log in a sec, reply a thread and in another sec you disappear... Like a ninja....)